Monday, December 1, 2014

Signage

Searching online for guides and resources for advocating for a gender-neutral restroom I came across an interesting topic: signage. Evidently one of the perceived barriers to creating a gender-neutral restroom is what do we put on the door?

Sam Killerman's post on the subject (hilariously) hits it on the head. If you want a good laugh go ahead and read the whole post here. The more serious bit is the following:

"Gender neutral restrooms as an idea really freak people out. And I’ve heard people object to some of the signage that’s used when they are actually implemented. [...] I can empathize with why [a sign merging a "man" icon and a "woman icon" ] might be confusing. Most folks might not understand what “gender neutral” means, have never had gender explained to them, and even if you’re familiar with gender identity and diversity [as a visual person myself] the literal interpretation of this image (a half “man” half “woman”) is a disconcerting representation of “gender neutral.” "

These signs are actually gaining popularity. I took a picture of this one being used at a local restaurant:




The Marriott Library on campus has a similar sign. When I see them feel delighted. I love gender-bending and when an expectation is broken my own mind starts to wonder about the myriad of other possibilities out there. This sign, for me, encourages me to think about the broad spectrum of gender identity and expression that exist. Then I have to remember that a lot of people have only seen gender-bending in the form of Drag Queens and Talk Shows with tabloid-esque headlines like "My Girlfriend used to have a Penis!" So I can see how this could conjure up such images and confuse people as to what the sign is for, especially a legislator already primed with thoughts of child molesters and freak-show images of bearded ladies. Sam Killerman's design is a nice way to get around this:
Huzzah! An image that tells you what to expect behind the door and what the room may be used for. After my journey to Vietnam two years ago, however, I realize that this isn't quite universal. On a tour of a farm outside of Hoi An the restroom was essentially a retrofitted large patio flower pot connected to a drain and hose. Then at the airport in Saigon (Ho Chi Minh City) I recall opening a stall door and staring at what was a sort of porcelain hole/trough in the ground.
I did not at the time have the wikihow instructions to use this device which I have learned is called a "Squat-Toilet". Looking back at the stall door I saw this:




I looked at the other doors and found a stick figure sitting on a toilet bowl and breathed a sigh of relief and then realized just how much a foreigner I was -- I didn't know how to use a local toilet. At this point I didn't care if the picture was of someone who looked like me (or me with a cape). I was so much more relieved to find a stick figure role-modeling what I so desperately needed to do.

Thankfully here at the University Counseling Center it turns out that signage is the easiest part. We don't need to go through higher-ups to get signs posted or made. Basically we just order it and stick it on the wall or door. My high school had a little sign-maker in our vocational technology class. With how many signs we have around here and how often personnel can change I imagine there's a similar machine on campus grinding away designs and letters on a weekly basis. As for what to actually put on the sign I've gotten three votes for Sam Killermann's Toilet graphic -- which can even be ordered from a professional company like My Door Sign

I even like the subtle change to "All Gender," though arguably it may not quite be inclusive of the genderless/agender. For those of you saying, "Forget words, just use a picture!" Don't forget about the blind and visually impaired. If you're looking for a restroom it should answer two questions as quickly as possible: Is it a restroom? and May I use it?

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Beginning Assessment

Beginning Assessment


Before jumping into construction I need to assess what I'm working with and what I need to do. I'm flooded with so many questions I don't even know if I'm asking the right questions.

A little 'stream of consciousness':

What will it cost? Who do I talk to? Will people care? How long will this take? Who will use it? Where in the building? Are there laws in the way? What did other people do? Is there enough room? Will I have enough time to do this? Is this the most effective use of my time? What is the meaning of the universe? What's for lunch?

Maybe there's a more effective way of breaking this down.  Let's go back to elementary school with the 5 questions: Who, What, When, Where, Why?

Who?


  • Who does this help? 
    • Trans* and Gender-Nonconforming Students, Faculty and Staff
    • A gender-neutral bathroom is open to all. The building's current configuration places men's and women's restrooms at opposite ends making it inconvenient if you happen to be on the far side of a long building. 
    • University Counseling Center
    • Center for Student Wellness
    • Admissions/Financial Aid
    • Student Learning Center/Tutoring
  • Who do I need to talk to?
    • Building manager
    • Counseling Center Director
  • Who could help?
    • LGBT Resource Center?
    • Utah Pride Center
    • TEA of Utah

What?


  • Gender-Neutral Bathroom
    • Gender Free?
    • Unisex?
    • Family
    • All-Gender
    • Single-Stall
    • 2 Single-stall restrooms?
  • What to accomplish?
    • Social Justice
    • Improved Access to Services

When?


  • When can this happen?
  • When do I have time to get this done?

Where?


  • Where in the building?
    • Next to the Counseling Center?
    • On the main floor?
    • Where do we serve the most people?
    • Where do we serve the most Trans* people?

Why?


  • Why is this important?
    • Trans* are at risk
      • Suicide
      • Self - Harm
      • Depression
      • Substance Abuse
      • Marginalized community
    • The Counseling Center's mission is to serve a diverse population and respect differences.

Which leads to a sixth question: How?

This integrates the above questions and is perhaps the big question I hope to answer in this project. 


Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Beginning the Diversity Initiative

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Hello. My name is James Dinh and I am a Social Work Intern at the University of Utah Counseling Center (UCC). I identify as genderqueer and one of the things I experience as someone who doesn't feel at home in the binary of male and female is not feeling safe and welcome in a gendered restroom. It's been a strange sense of discomfort and anxiety that I can trace back since kindergarten when we lined up separately as boys and girls. Back when I interviewed for the internship here I thought about the possibility of advocating for a gender-neutral bathroom. There are more and more of them popping up on campus already. I quickly shut myself down, however, and told myself that I was a lowly intern, it's an expensive project, and no one else would really care. 
Today I was part of a team that decided to take a look at a proposed "Gender-Confirming Letter Provision Policy" and it was brought up that there were other ways we can work to make this a safer and more welcoming place for transgender and gender non-conforming clients such as having a gender-neutral bathroom. It was cisgender staff that brought this up and before I realized what was happening my eyes were watering and my voice was shaky. I thanked the group, which already knew that I am genderqueer; I thanked them for validating me -- my existence. It still sounds so silly to me to say it now but something as simple as a gender-neutral bathroom helps to acknowledge that I and many others like me exist. 
Each clinical intern here is tasked with working on a "Diversity Initiative" in which we find a way to meet the needs of an under-served population here at the UCC. I have taken on this project to not only fulfill my internship requirement, but to also reaffirm myself.

I exist. I am important. I am not alone. I am a human being and please... just let me pee.